Showing posts with label jealousy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label jealousy. Show all posts

Monday, May 19, 2014

WINDOWS

Windows

Each and every man is a window upon the world.
In the house of mankind the windows are many.
To condemn any window for its’ view is beyond foolish for it is
stationary and can have no other view.

And so it is that all windows contribute and not subtract from our understanding of the outside world...And so subtraction here is purely a matter of not seeing. 

So to have only one window is truly limiting and you remain captive to your one and only view.
Hence, now what you do not see and understand is now beyond measure.
And so it is that the man who seeks new windows has a much and continued understanding of the world around him. He who does not hurts and condemns only himself.     

Thursday, October 31, 2013

LEVELING

Leveling a term for making all equal.

In a depressed and deprived society there exist a lot of unhappiness. It will so happen that someday your neighbor, friend, brother, spouse or whoever will somehow arise into some good fortune. This will in turn make him very happy. He will want to shout it from the roof tops [not the best idea as we know] .

And so the rest of us contemplate: Why should he be happy if the rest of us are not! Why does he deserve to be happy and not me? I work hard and suffer... Where is my reward?!... This causing a re-evaluating of thyself- merited or not- it seems to happen. Hence for every pile of good dirt we accumulate... there is somewhere... a hole in the earth. And if we archive a painting of pure white that makes a painting of dark all the darker.

In that way the  happiness of one shall manifest as sadness and depravation in others. Hence we see the value of modesty as opposed to shouting from the roof tops. And so it is that the many care not about the merit of your achievements or your good fortune...How could they have any proper vision of that? They are not you and will never be you. They lack your frame of reference.

Yes, you have inadvertently caused them to look inward and now they see themselves as lacking.
Now more hurt and deeper in sadness they now search for an escape. So now they look to bring you down... and if in bringing you down  raises them up a bit...all the better!  Hence they go and report you to the group...[the government, the company, the administration, the CEO, the king, and so on] In short anyone with the power to bring you down...The leveling force. They care not about your merit. It is foremost the reduction of their own pain and inadequacy which your success has tormented.                

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

SAD COOKIE

JEALOUSY = Admiration gone sour. The grass is always greener on the other side.
Results primarily from always looking outward...Seeking an outside object or person to blame.
An inability to look  inward. An inability to face and resolve problems within “the self”.
It is as if you were just learning how to cook...YOU choose to make cookies...YOU choose to add THIS ingredient and not THAT... YOU are going to make mistakes. It’s going to taste bad...That is how it is supposed to be...There is no lowering of the bar for YOU. The lowering of the bar would hurt you. Grants you that which YOU do not deserve. It grants you a deeper fall the next time making it ever more difficult to get up and try again. It makes YOU your own worst enemy. You must learn to eat your own cookies and learn from them. That’s life.